Had a girl's talk with my fellow sec sch gals yesterday.
Men need women. Women not neccesarily need a man.
In the past, a woman need a man for survival for food for money. Not for now. A man, will forever be looking for a woman.
When a man says he doesnt mind a more successful woman, in fact, he minds.
Needless to say more. Men's talk will surely lead to this. But they have to be fair too. They had to go for NS. The 2 yrs lag is not our fault!
It leads to the next theory.
Men always thought a woman go for loaded successful guys. In fact woman can settle for a non.
A woman doesnt mind an aspiring poor man. But like YC's friend said, "If both guys with exactly the same characteristics same looks, but one is loaded, the other is not. Which one will you choose?"
Well, this is when we are given a choice what!
Men always say women are troublesome.
They look for trouble in the first place. Nobody ask them to come after.
Not-so-handsome man, pretty woman. Handsome man, not-so-pretty woman.
If a not-so-handsome man had a pretty woman, the man will appreciate the woman, cause it's like they've found a gem. The pretty woman will be happy cause they wont be worrying for the unneccessary attraction a handsome man will get.
If a handsome man had a not-so-pretty woman, the woman will be happy cause she had found a gem. On the other hand, the handsome man will be happy cause he can by all means to go out and fling cause he knows the woman will stay for him and he'll always had the upper hand to find another woman.
Handsome man, pretty woman? Both worrying when each other will run away. lol.
Conclusion?
Love is never easy.
It involves money now. Cause men need money to feel courageous and confidence boosted.